Archive for January, 2010

How To Deal With Stress
Monday, January 18th, 2010

One of the greatest barriers to achieving all that we want in life is stress and finding stress reducers is definitely a key to changing things for the better.

How To Deal With Stress as a business owner, it’s imperative to stay healthy both physically and mentally. If you’re a planner and think ahead, you may have systems in place which can handle your business during your absences. However, illnesses wear away at your vitality and your passion for your business. When that happens, regardless of the systems you have in place, business and profits suffer.

Now we’re not just talking about the costly effects of getting sick – and it is costly. Annually, illness costs US businesses more than 45 billion and that doesn’t take into account your personal costs for medical expenses and time off of work. What may be more insidious are the effects of mental health on your business.

Stress causes us to feel:

Overwhelmed
Frustrated
Ambivalent about our success
Depressed
Angry
Exhausted
Moody
Unfocused
Indecisive
Anxious
Burned out

Chronic stress, the type of stress that seems never-ending and inescapable, like the stress of a bad marriage or an extremely taxing job (this type of stress can lead to burnout), is the most insidious of the various types of stress. It is this type of stress causes severe complications, symptoms and conditions including chronic headaches and a decreased immune system.

According to many studies as many as 90% of doctor’s visits are for stress caused symptoms. The good news is that stress, at least the majority of it, can be not just managed but eliminated completely.

If you’re too stressed to enjoy your life and to focus on your business positively and productively then something needs to be done – quickly!

Take Control Over Your Life, Your Health and Your Success

When you take the steps to take care of yourself you’re not only poised for better success and profits, you’re in a better situation to enjoy the fruits of your labor. What good are millions in the bank account if you’re too sick or depressed to enjoy it, right?

The question is, what is the best stress management? Here are five steps to get the job done.

Step One – Recognize the cause of your stress. There are a few instances where you feel tremendously stressed – which of these triggers can be eliminated from your life?

For example if you’re stressed by customer service responsibilities the fastest way to eliminate this stress is to outsource the task. If you’re stressed by not having enough money to meet the bills, consider consulting an expert financial advisor or credit counselor. This may not eliminate the stress however it will give you more control over the situation which will go a long way toward reducing your stress.

Step Two – Catch yourself when you’re thinking negative thoughts and replace them with positive ones. An easy way to do this is to make a list of the negative thoughts you have regularly, just let go and don’t edit yourself. Write down every negative thought, these are often complaints, which come to mind.

For example, “I’ll never get this done,” or “I’m too busy,” or “I’m always exhausted, sick, angry…” “I’m never going to get this business to the next level,” and so on…

Now taking a look at the negative thoughts in your life, turn them around and make them positive affirmations.

For example, if you’re complaining about never having any energy, change it to say “I’m always awake, alert and alive.” When you feel yourself starting to complain or think or say a negative comment, stop yourself and think or recite your affirmation.

Some experts recommend posting your affirmations where you can see them, say for example your bathroom mirror, and then reciting them several times a day until you have them memorized and/or you’re no longer feeling the negative emotions and can move onto cleaning or eliminating other negative effects on your life.

Step Three – Take better care of yourself. Get better sleep, exercise more and eat a nutritious and life sustaining diet. We talk about all three of these in subsequent chapters inside the Gold member area in Vol 3. of Mindmap to Riches however it’s important to know that diet, sleep and exercise all help your body and mind better cope with stress so that even when you are feeling stressed, it doesn’t have the negative effects on your body and mind.

Step Four – Calming rituals. Find your own calming ritual, for example meditation, a candle lit bubble bath, massage, and even aroma therapy (scents like lavender have a proven calming effect). Or put on some of your favorite relaxing music such as classical or sounds of nature, or even pop, R&B, country and rock if it helps you relax. Or sit in front of a warm fireplace or on your patio, balcony or porch and just relax to get a load off your chest can be very therapeutic.

Step Five – Remember what is good in your life. Regularly making entries into a gratitude journal is a wonderful way to remember all that is good in your life and when you’re able to feel gratitude, suddenly the problems you do have don’t seem as big or important. If journaling isn’t your thing, just try to think of five things you’re grateful for before you go to bed or first thing in the morning before you get up. You can even create a ritual out of it, for example sitting outside on your patio, enjoying your morning cup of joe and saying thanks for all that you have and all that you are.

You don’t have to live with stress and you certainly don’t have to suffer the symptoms and conditions it causes. In addition to stress management and striving for optimal mental health, it’s important to know that diet, sleep and exercise all play a role in how your body and mind handle stress.

The healthier you are the better you’ll manage the stress you have and the happier and more productive you’ll be.

About The Author: Jeremy Gislason is an entrepreneur, online business owner and marketer. He is also a philanthropist with over 12 years of offline and online business experience. Discover how to achieve and sustain optimal health for lifelong success in Mindmap to Riches Vol 3.

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A Message from Warren Buffet
Saturday, January 16th, 2010

I came across this piece from Warren Buffet and thought that I would forward on to everyone. When all is said and done our future is in our hands and we are the only people who can make our future what we want it to be.

Warren Buffets principles on Wealth.
Our happiness is diluted and our peace is threatened by the financial illness that has infected our families, organizations and nations. Everyone is desperate to find a remedy that will cure their financial illness and help them recover their financial health. They expect the financial experts to provide them with remedies, forgetting the fact that it is these experts who created this financial mess. Every new year, I adopt a couple of old maxims as my beacons to guide my future. This self-prescribed therapy has ensured that with each passing year, I grow wiser and not older. I invite you to tap into the financial wisdom of our elders along with me, and become financially wiser.

• Hard work: All hard work brings profit; but mere talk leads only to poverty.
• Laziness: A sleeping lobster is carried away by the water current.
• Earnings: Never depend on a single source of income.
• Spending: If you buy things you don’t need, you’ll soon sell things you need.
• Savings: Don’t save what is left after spending; Spend what is left after saving
• Accounting: It’s no use carrying an umbrella, if your shoes are leaking.
• Auditing: Beware of little expenses; a small leak can sink a large ship.
• Risk-taking: Never test the depth of the river with both feet.
• Investment: Don’t put all your eggs in one basket.

I’m certain that those who have already been practicing these principles remain financially healthy. I’m equally confident that those who resolve to start practicing these principles will quickly regain their financial health. Let us become wiser and lead a happy, healthy, prosperous and peaceful life.

Warren Buffet